What the fuck does this even mean? Momma, please take a deep breath, and truly answer these questions:
Is your baby fed?
Is your baby clothed? Is she warm? Is he provided for in the best way you can?
You are a good mom.
Okay, maybe you were not able to sit baby down in the high chair for 3 square meals today. Maybe you lost your shit when he spit up all over the car and you weren't able to clean it up. Literally ALL OF THE THINGS. Please if you are reading this, remember that YOU get to choose. You choose how you react to what shows up or happens in your external world. Kids just make it all the more fun and unpredictable. Next time you catch yourself rushing through the bedtime routine, remember to slow down. I know sometimes it feels like life revolves around feeding, and napping. Remember YOU are their everything! You are their whole world. And you are damn good at it.